Four Physical Ways to Communicate Your Sexual Desires with Your Partner
Communicating what we want in bed doesn’t have to be awkward or difficult-we just have to find the right communication style for our needs, circumstances, and comfort levels.
With that said, here are 4 Physical Ways to Communicate Your Sexual Desires with Your Partners:
1. Show them how you like to be touched (practice with yourself to learn what you like! This is also an opportunity to experiment and tune into your body’s responses and experience of pleasure.)
2. Mutual masturbation — show them what you like while learning what they want, too. If you’re a busy person or are short on time, mutual masturbation might be a great option.
3. Guide their hands to various areas of your body, your toys, lube, etc. — if you’re uncomfortable or unable to touch certain parts of your body, or are uncomfortable showing your partner using your hands, use props or guide your partner to touch you.
4. Explore porn with one another — another option if you are shy about your desires, are unable to touch yourself, or are struggling with how to communicate.