Navigating Safer Sex Conversations: Essential Tips for Summer
People keep referring to Summer 2021 as the “Summer of STIs.”😩
While I believe we will likely see a rise in STIs this summer, I do not believe it is a result of a new pandemic to fear; I believe it will be due to a rise in socialization and multiple-partnered interactions—leading to more symptomatic infections and more folks seeking resolution and treatment from health practices. I view it, generally, as a result of human interaction.
Nevertheless, I think this is a time which calls for an important reminder as folks feel more comfortable leaving their homes and engaging with friends and potential partners.
Three safer sex conversations for summer:
1. STI status: this is a great time to refresh your sexual health, and share that reminder with potential partners.
2. Herpes status: if you’ve followed me for a while, you likely are familiar with the under-education and over stigmatization about STIs, but especially herpes. Asking someone their STI status may not include a herpes status. Asking someone directly if they know their herpes status or if they experience cold sores is likely to yield the answer you’re seeking.
3. COVID vaccination status: many workplaces are mandating their employees receive the vaccine. Similarly, you will likely make a decision about partners you choose to engage with.
All of these conversations involve some form of shame or stigma. I am reminded of the article I wrote last year for @phillyinquirer about the parallels between STIs and COVID. When engaging in any of these conversations, I encourage informed consent, as well as an area free of shame and stigma.