Navigating Suppressive Antiviral Therapy: Empowering Choices and Respectful Communication
Forcing a partner with herpes to remain on suppressive antiviral therapy if it does not work for their body or lifestyle is a form of abuse.
Utilizing suppressive antiviral therapy is helpful for those who struggle to manage recurring outbreaks or those engaging with partners who do not have herpes.
I get it. Suppressive antiviral therapy allows for a sense of security and reduction in transmitting the herpes simplex virus to potential partners. It’s great if that works for you and your body, and a plus if it provides a comfort level to your partners.
It also should be a mutual discussion, just like those involving the use of barrier methods and contraceptives. Oftentimes (not always), a partner’s reliance and subsequent enforcement of antivirals masks underlying STI stigma.
For partners of people with herpes—communicate with your partner. seek more information. respect them and what works for their bodies.
For those with herpes—Figure out what works for your body. Talk to your doctor. And don’t forget, antivirals aren’t an obligation if they don’t work for you.