Beyond Herpes: Redefining Sexuality and Intimacy in Relationships
What’s it like having sex with someone who has herpes?”
Stigma and society lead many people to believe that more is required of them when having sex with someone living with herpes.
Engaging sexually with someone living with herpes is more than just reducing the odds of transmission.
Discussing herpes transmission management strategies (antivirals, barriers, & avoidance of certain sexual activities during outbreaks) should be a continued, but minimal part of your shared sexual experience.
Instead of focusing (read: obsessing) over if you’ll contract herpes, have you ever thought to check-in with your partner beyond their diagnosis? Ask your partner with herpes if they feel comfortable, fulfilled, safe, and seen for more than their diagnosis.